When Jennifer Leslie started college she formed a pact with her young son -
life after a degree would allow them to spend more time together because she
wouldn't have to juggle both school and work.
Leslie recalls telling 8-year-old Jordan, "when mom is done, we will get to
ride bikes, go to the park and you can take karate lessons."
Friday, Jordan will be in the audience when his mom picks up her degree at a
small ceremony at the Arizona State University West campus. Leslie is one of
93 Native American students graduating this fall, the largest number for a
fall graduation.
The 37-year-old Navajo woman earned a bachelor's in criminal justice with a
minor in women's studies and envisions a future as a victim's advocate,
ideally at a state agency. Eventually, she dreams of returning to the Navajo
Nation and helping women and children afflicted by domestic violence.
The single parent from central Phoenix credits Jordan with inspiring her
academic journey that began in 2004. She wanted to provide a better life for
him.
With words of encouragement from friends and family and despite difficulties
along the way, Leslie completed college, while juggling childcare and
working a full-time clerical job at Hospice of the Valley. Carolina Montes,
a friend from Texas and employed by Texas Tech University, was among the
friends who kept her motivated.
Montes and Leslie met as co-workers at Texas Workers Compensation Commission
when Jordan was 2.
Montes saw Leslie struggle but also saw potential in her and told her a
college degree would open doors.
"I told her, 'you can go back to school for your sake, but more for your son
Jordan,"' Montes remembered Leslie as a being hard worker, self-motivated
and good with computers. "I'm not surprised she finished," she said.
Leslie's pursuit of a college degree was no simple feat. Stress, pressure,
deadlines, feelings of being overwhelmed and guilt about not spending time
with her son nearly crashed her drive in 2006.
"I asked, 'Why am I doing this to myself?' At times like this, I would talk
to my younger sister and I usually bounced stuff off her. She told me,
'You're almost done. Just keep going."'
Leslie is a member of the Navajo Nation but like many others, high
unemployment drives many members off the reservation to pursue jobs and
opportunities elsewhere. Leslie's parents joined that migration into
Amarillo, Texas, from Houck in 1974. Leslie moved back to the Navajo Nation
in 2000 and later moved to the Valley and enrolled at Glendale Community
College where she received her associate's.
Her immediate plans after graduation include fulfilling that promise made to
her son. Mom and Jordan will be at a Phoenix park Saturday. Her son plans to
bring his bike.